Reclaiming Your Astrological Blueprint and Embracing Individual Connection with Sharon Marie Scott

[00:00:00] Sharon Marie Scott: You know, what we're doing in those release sessions is to identify the denser and discordant frequencies that the cellular memory is holding on to through this lifetime, past lifetimes, and the ancestral lineage. And because they entangle and they, they complicate the life that you're living now and the reality that you're perceiving now.

[00:00:20] And so, To identify where they are and then to elicit, loosen them and ultimately release them raises the comprehensive frequency of the person after that. And that raising of that frequency. And by raising it's faster. I don't think of it as better, but like just faster.

[00:00:38] Jessica: Your journey to the divine is an intimate exploration of self where you are both the seeker and the source of enlightenment. I Jessica Pashke invite you to break free from the ordinary, to reforge your spiritual path with courage. Curiosity and audacity. Unleash the power of your spiritual connection, stepping into a purpose driven life, [00:01:00] free of have twos and shoulds.

[00:01:02] Join me on this profound exploration of rediscovery, where you'll not only redefine your own spiritual practice, but also inspire a collective awakening. Welcome to reclaiming our spirit.

[00:01:21] Hello, welcome back to reclaiming our spirit. We have got. An amazing human being on today and she's come to talk about really interesting things. We're going to talk all about blueprints and how you can transcend your own blueprint. So Sharon Marie Scott is a queer kinky relationship rebel and divine embodiment catalyst and life turned on mentor.

[00:01:42] Doesn't that sound delicious? Sounds delicious. Um, I love it. Her healing modality guided epigenetic release is a potent combination of somatic healing, Inner Child Parts Work, Nervous System Regulation, Bio Energetic Healing, and Ancestral and Past Life Integration that [00:02:00] Releases Trauma at the Cellular Level.

[00:02:02] You all, I have seen this in work, watched her do it, it is freaking phenomenal. Her mission is to guide awakened thought leaders, spiritual trailblazers, and social mavericks through sacred recalibrations so they can embody a life that feels turned on. Enjoy and sacred purpose every single day, Sharon.

[00:02:21] Welcome. I'm so excited. Thank

[00:02:22] Sharon Marie Scott: you. Thank you. Yeah, it was super exciting to have you, um, witness my healing modality because I actually have never had, uh, any observers of that before. I've only done one on one sessions. So that was super exciting. It

[00:02:33] Jessica: was really amazing and it was so comprehensive, but it wasn't like formulaic.

[00:02:40] You really listened to the person across from you and really picked in and tuned up in their energy and allowed them to really guide the session themselves. It was one of the most beautifully done pieces of exploratory work, and I don't want to say healing, though I know that it was healing for them, but there was just this, [00:03:00] these parts coming back together.

[00:03:02] And coming apart at the same time, it was really beautiful and it was really, that's a really great description, actually.

[00:03:07] Sharon Marie Scott: Yeah, because what we're doing, you know, and I know this isn't totally the topic, but I'm sure it will weave its way in its relevance. But, you know, what we're doing in those release sessions is to identify.

[00:03:19] The denser and discordant frequencies that the cellular memory is holding onto through this lifetime, past lifetimes and the ancestral lineage. And because they entangle and they, they complicate the life that you're living now and the reality that you're perceiving now. And so to identify where they are and then to elicit, loosen them and ultimately release them raises the comprehensive frequency of the person after that.

[00:03:42] And that raising of that frequency, and by raising it's faster, I don't think of it as better, but like just faster frequency. But by doing that, that new frequency now calls in a whole new reality around you. And there's shifts and stuff that take place immediately upon the session being finished.

[00:03:56] Jessica: Yeah.

[00:03:57] It was really amazing to, and such an [00:04:00] honor to watch. It was just very expansive work. I think that if we were to describe it in terms that might be more familiar, I know there's not a way to simplify it, but how would you, how would you explain it? Like we internalize, things happen to us, trauma and a multitude of things, right?

[00:04:17] And then we, the past intrudes

[00:04:20] Sharon Marie Scott: on your present.

[00:04:21] Jessica: Ooh, I like that.

[00:04:22] Sharon Marie Scott: In the form of reoccurring and looping thoughts, I'm not enough. That'll never work. I'll never succeed. I'm a failure. That looping thought. is how it interrupts your present moment. That's a past moment interrupting your present. And what happens when you release the frequency of those thoughts of, or really what is an echo of a memory, that's the cellular memory is holding onto, you literally stop having the thought.

[00:04:47] Your brain might engage a couple more times once the body has been released because it's patterned to think that way and to be warning you, but when it doesn't have the frequency to reach back to and lodge into, it's just not there anymore. You literally don't have the thought [00:05:00] anymore. And so it is hard to explain because post healing session, the way that it will express itself is You have to notice that you didn't have that thought.

[00:05:08] You didn't look over your shoulder when you were walking to your car. You didn't feel fear. You didn't think to feel insecure about your relationship. So it's a, it's a tricky, what I call bottom of the Jenga tower revelation, uh, because you are removing these, the wounding from the very bottom of, you know, of your system and the mind just doesn't have anything to engage with anymore.

[00:05:29] And so, yeah, it's very, it's super transformative.

[00:05:32] Jessica: It's awesome. I love it. If you can't tell, Sharon and I can talk for hours. Yes. And we've taken turns talking. We've commenced ourselves, but we would try to attempt to stay on track. So, in that attempt, Sharon, what is a spark of joy or a moment of joy that you've had recently?

[00:05:50] You know?

[00:05:52] Sharon Marie Scott: A lot of my joy and happiness is centered around the senses or sensuality. What comes to mind is [00:06:00] yesterday I had leftovers from this incredible meal that I had made and I pulled together the leftovers for that and I brought it upstairs to my little, you know, nest and I was like, I remember like actually like sliding onto my bed and setting the tray down and there's all my food.

[00:06:14] I know I'm going to put my fingers in my food and I queued up this like great new series on Netflix called Warrior. It's I love martial arts films. Oh, amazing, wonderful film. That's kind of like a TV series. That's like Deadwood. It's like Chinatown. It has all this Chinese culture and martial arts scenes.

[00:06:31] Anyway. So my moment of joy was. Just like, like literally like sliding onto the bed, queuing up the TV show, knowing I'm about to get my fingers dirty in my food and my face. And that was my, that was my moment. I

[00:06:44] Jessica: love it. Those are like the best moments where you're like, everything about this is perfection.

[00:06:50] Yes.

[00:06:51] Sharon Marie Scott: And, and even the break, you know, I get up at like four 30 in the morning. So it was like, you know, maybe four hours, I'd already worked like for three or four hours. And so it was like a reward and a relax. [00:07:00] That's awesome.

[00:07:01] Jessica: So it was actually Sharon's Being able to be a witness and, and present for one of Sharon's sessions that sparked this conversation that we had afterward about, I don't even know how we got on it.

[00:07:13] These are the things y'all, when I bring guests on, we start chatting off and the conversation evolves. And all of a sudden I was like, I'm like, Oh, we've got to bring this on a podcast episode. This is going somewhere. And we had one of those conversations and we were talking about this idea of. Whatever you want to call it, because there's a lot out there.

[00:07:31] I'm sure you can toss a few names in. Human design, soul blueprints, astrology charts, and even stuff like Myers Briggs. Even, even stuff that's non spiritual. Absolutely. Yes. And this idea that, well, you said it best. How do you describe them? Because they have a purpose, right? They do, they do have a purpose.

[00:07:51] And also, uh, we can sort of fall into things that we didn't realize might also be not the greatest for us. So. And y'all, I'm going to tell you [00:08:00] right now, I love astrology, I've had my human design read, I talk about soul blueprints, we're not saying that these don't have value, all of these things are in my, in my repertoire, okay, so don't take us wrong, we just want to look at this idea of what do you do after this information comes back, like, how do you use it in real life, and in a way that's healthy, and encourages you to continue growing, so, Sharon, yeah.

[00:08:26] Sharon Marie Scott: Yeah, I'll say a couple things about it. The first thing that comes to mind is I think of it like the process of growing up and the rites of passage that we move in from children to adult, like as we're as children, you know, we're sort of emulating the people around us. We might have little sparks of identity, but it's still forming.

[00:08:43] And then as we go to get older, we're really starting to like test. It's like, let me try that. Let me try this on. Let me try that personality type on. Let me try. Let me try the rebel on. Let me try the goody two shoes on. You know, you're the block of clay and you're like adding to it and you're subtracting from it and the shape is starting to take place.

[00:08:58] And I feel like that's [00:09:00] kind of the sequence where. The blueprints can really come in handy because we're looking for our identity. Sometimes we can't imagine what we haven't experienced yet. And so for me, like the astrology or, um, the astrology was helpful to explain other people to me sometimes besides maybe explaining a bit of, to, of me to myself, but bigger blueprints like the gene keys or human design, you know, super useful and validating at the right time when you're like, Maybe you're scolding yourself for being a certain way, or you're scolding yourself because, uh, you seem to run up against this same kind of life problem over and over again.

[00:09:37] And then suddenly you, you encounter a blueprint that explains Why that happens to you because you have this sort of energetic proclivity. Mine is disempowerment. Like that's my big like story. I think it's in the gene case. Like my big one's disempowerment. And so now I know whenever I feel disempowered, cause it happens now that It feels softer.

[00:09:57] The hit from that moment feels [00:10:00] softer because I now understand that that's part of my blueprint. And so with that understanding, I go, Oh, that thing's just happening again. I just have to use my tools to move to the other side of it. I also think of it in terms of kind of like epigenetics, you know, go back to like the guided epigenetic release.

[00:10:16] So epigenetics is a proclivity of your DNA, the cells in your DNA to turn on and off. But to lean into certain benefits and certain challenges, like, you know, I have 20 percent Ashkenazi Jew in my, in my, my epigenetics. And that means that I don't process glucose well. And I only found that out, the Ashkenazi Jew part, about three years ago.

[00:10:41] Over time, my body has been getting sicker and sicker, the more I've been trying to drink alcohol or be, have sugars. But I didn't, I didn't know about it. I just, I didn't know. You know, my body was doing its thing and certainly trying to communicate with me. And then finding out, here's another blueprint.

[00:10:55] Ashkenazi Jew. So it was helpful and [00:11:00] validating that it explained this thing. And then now I get to make choices with regards to, I feel more empowered by having the blueprint and understanding more of who I am and then making conscious choices either to be aligned with that blueprint or to challenge the blueprint.

[00:11:14] Jessica: I like that. That's a really key point. Y'all, we don't have to go with what the blueprint says. It is one interpretation of things. I remember when I first got my astrology chart, my needle chart read years and years and years ago, and I had gotten it read a couple times since then as well. But, It never resonated with me.

[00:11:34] And I was like, am I broken? Like, am I supposed to be this something? And the readers would get really frustrated. They would get really like, no, this is you. This is you. And I'm like, this really isn't, this really isn't me. And then I would say in the last few years, maybe three years, I found an astrologist who just really gets me.

[00:11:52] And I remember sitting down with them. They were sitting across from me and they started reading my chart. And they said, And I was like, for [00:12:00] the first time I saw myself in my chart,

[00:12:02] Sharon Marie Scott: the way

[00:12:02] Jessica: they were describing me, the way that I just needed someone who spoke the same language as me to relate that. And it was so powerful.

[00:12:11] It's like, Oh my gosh, someone sees me. They really see me.

[00:12:15] Sharon Marie Scott: Right. And it's like it becomes a new jumping off point for you to then decide, you know, how you're going to blossom or bloom from that place. But I'll point out too that in what you're saying that the blueprint can also be limiting. So in this case, you know, this blueprint that people were sharing with you, and I feel the same way about like my, I'm on the cusp of Aries Pisces.

[00:12:33] And so not that I know a lot about astrology, but it always was confusing because you know, they're not the same. I kind of just never really understood where I landed in the midst of all of that. But in, in the case of you getting those readings, like You know, it was another place for you to feel like maybe you were failing or you were not aligning with with who you were supposed to be and like, again, like, you get to, you get to sort of be more of a victim to the blueprint.

[00:12:55] And so, you know, that's another reason to to be to [00:13:00] consider, you know, how you're allowing these blueprints. to influence the way you're going to be in this reality.

[00:13:08] Jessica: Right. Because like anything, any, any spiritual topic, any spiritual concept, tool, technique, healing modality, whatever you want to call it, if we give our power away to it, it can actually work against us no matter how, how lovely it is in its essence.

[00:13:23] Sharon Marie Scott: I learned something recently by a spiritual leader named Jules Arnaz. She talks about the consciousness of DMT, like the, the frequency of 963 and, you know, being able to observe our reality through the consciousness, the neutral consciousness without the ego in the cosmology and how she speaks about that.

[00:13:40] You know, so let's call it technology. The, the ego has to have something to latch onto. So in the way that she, you're able to like take the steps through her process of, of, of sort of downloading consciousness in a way that it can see everything neutrally and without the ego. But you have to give kind of the ego a [00:14:00] structure to latch onto in the process.

[00:14:01] And I know I'm talking kind of obscurely, so hopefully you're following, but my point being is that I will bet you that these blueprints are what give the ego something to latch on to. And doesn't that make sense? It does make sense. Because again, the validation or the, you know, the grasping of who am I, the belonging, you know, the, the fitting in versus belonging that journey from child to adult, all of that for me is all starting to come together in one big idea as of what we're talking about here.

[00:14:30] And so the, the blueprints become, uh, the, where the ego can initially latch on and say, I feel validated. I feel seen this is me or mostly. And then it's just, it's really just about like, what choices are you going to make from there?

[00:14:45] Jessica: That's a fantastic point. It's almost like an anchor or a stability in that chaotic transition, transformation evolution cycle.

[00:14:55] Right. As we, and we, and y'all, we don't just discover ourselves once. Like I [00:15:00] know Sherry, it is a journey that doesn't end. We're just talking about this before the call. There'll be points where you're like, Where, how did you phrase it? Like a snow globe?

[00:15:08] Sharon Marie Scott: Um, yeah, like a snow globe that's been shaken up and all the snow is, is in the air and kind of floating and hasn't made its way.

[00:15:14] You don't know exactly where it's gonna land. Like what timeline am I gonna direct these flakes, you know, this new, the, the flakes all together are all of me, you know, and where am I gonna, yeah, where am I gonna, or are they all

[00:15:25] Jessica: gonna come together? ? And it's in those moments that these types of blueprints and charts and, and readings can be really quite helpful.

[00:15:34] Because they can help you kind of make sense of the moment when maybe nothing makes sense. What would you say, Sharon, though, needs to be the next step? So let's say someone has their human design reading, their astrology. Oh, there's so many different out there. We can't name them all, but they have their, their chart read.

[00:15:48] And then how would they approach it in a different way? Like rather than just be like, Oh, that's my chart. Yep. And leave it. Where could they take it next? If they wanted to, like what would happen after that? [00:16:00]

[00:16:00] Sharon Marie Scott: Yeah, I guess two things come to mind. The first is to really take in where the challenges of that blueprint are for you.

[00:16:07] Like I talked about the disempowerment for me, because if I know that disempowerment is a major storyline that I'm going to encounter, or that when I encounter it, that's going to take me down the hardest, then Then I know to be really gentle with myself when I start to have those feelings of disempowerment or when I see something that is looking to trigger the feelings of disempowerment in me.

[00:16:28] So that would be the first thing, is to really look to those feelings of disempowerment. Look to the things that, um, that in the blueprint are meant to be your challenges so that you kind of know what your hero's journey is going to look like, and you can approach it with more self compassion and more gentleness.

[00:16:41] And then the opposite, which is to look to the strengths of your blueprint so that you can lean even further into creating the like tools that highlight and, um, and create, uh, more ease and flow and, You know, yeah, yeah, including creating [00:17:00] more ease and flow with your skills and with the things that you have working for you so that the journey itself becomes more useful and more, I'm going to say efficient, but it's not a very romantic word.

[00:17:11] Jessica: No, but it's like you're developing this awareness about kind of where you naturally have these strengths naturally, maybe step into something that isn't the most helpful thing, or maybe it is because you're learning from it, but you know that it exists. And it's giving you this like 30, 000 foot view.

[00:17:27] Where you can get up and you can see it and say, okay, here we are. I can see how this is played out in my past. I think it's really helpful for past reflection. Like, oh yeah, that's how that works. It's here I am in my present. And then now what, how do I want to fold that up in my becoming? How do I want to move forward with this?

[00:17:45] Knowing it's just a part of the puzzle. I remember in one of the readings, I don't know which one, if it was human design or what it is, I can't ever keep them separate. Somebody had said to me that because of the way the thing is, is made up that I'll, I'll have a, [00:18:00] uh, a tendency to always kind of step back.

[00:18:02] And let others step forward. And while that's a beautiful thing, because I am such a connector, like I love to connect people with the people that they need. I love that. It can also work against me because I'll constantly be stepping back, stepping back. And this was years ago. And, and I thought, gosh, what a helpful piece of information.

[00:18:20] Cause now I'm just a little bit more aware. And I'm like, Oh, hang tight before you do that. That is good. And also, you have something to say.

[00:18:30] Sharon Marie Scott: Yeah. I think you really nailed it by talking about, like, having the aperture pulled back a level and being able to observe, like, okay, now I have, again, I have a, there's a pivot point here.

[00:18:40] I'm aware of this piece of my blueprint. I just watched myself invite someone to step in front of me, you know, and I have an extra moment where I get to make maybe a different choice. And so that, and that, that alone is, is a transcending of the blueprint, just taking the, making that one decision.

[00:18:55] Jessica: Is

[00:18:55] Sharon Marie Scott: a transcending of the blueprint.

[00:18:56] It is. So then what happens when we transcend it?

[00:18:59] Jessica: I [00:19:00] mean, I don't think we have like one answer, but like, what are your thoughts on that?

[00:19:03] Sharon Marie Scott: Yeah. I mean, I feel like I'm experiencing some of that now. Nothing that I read about Aries or Aries on the cusp of Pisces fits me anymore. I'm aware that I'm at the very end.

[00:19:12] I'm at like the plural sequence of my gene keys. As little as I know about that stuff. I'm at the end of the entire sequence. What I'm learning is that I just keep staying the course. That I'm, that I'm on the trajectory that I'm on, and it's really kind of, it's always in the balance, the balance of emotions, being and doing emotions and rationale, you know, like constantly tackling the disempowerment piece and always knowing that I can, I can proactively go work on the frequencies in my body that are holding on to disempowerment and, and release those.

[00:19:49] Again, I'm coming right back to your nailing it with like your 30, 000 view concept. If you're keeping your camera pulled back so wide that you have, you have the blueprints in mind and the [00:20:00] challenges and benefits in mind, regardless of the blueprint, you are in a place of choice.

[00:20:06] Jessica: Yes. And I

[00:20:06] Sharon Marie Scott: think choice is where the empowerment is.

[00:20:08] And I think so each moment you have an option to transcend the blueprint.

[00:20:14] Jessica: I love

[00:20:14] Sharon Marie Scott: that. I'm thinking, I'm thinking of neurodivergence. Can I? Yes, please. Oh my gosh. Cause I'm, I'm, I'm neurodivergent and to discover, Oh, I just got like the full body shell. So that's my sky's like, fuck yeah. Um, I love it. So to discover that I was neurodivergent again, felt just so relieving to me because it meant I just wasn't as fucked up as like, you know, I had kind of always told myself.

[00:20:36] And, and in fact, I'm super high functioning and like, I've, I've built these like innate instinctual tools that are pretty. amazing. They're like superpowers. And so I'm aware that I don't think sometimes or process like everyone else. I can see it as a, as a superpower, but I also am aware of where I don't line up with the way other brains work.[00:21:00]

[00:21:00] And so I can choose to kind of go further into the direction of my neurodivergence, or I can challenge myself and stretch. And say, well, let me, let me see it more through their eyes, through the eyes of their brain. And so for me, I, I, I tend to look for the opportunities to expand my, my bubble of reach to myself, my bubble of choice for myself and.

[00:21:29] Looking for the line between honoring who I am because I think, like, I think you wanted to talk about this, which is where the blueprints can become limiting because people can kind of use them as excuses. Well, I'm only going to work with this kind of person because my human design reports that I have to work with this kind of person and they cut themselves off from the stretch.

[00:21:47] Right. Distraction is such, such a key part of continuing to grow and expand.

[00:21:51] Jessica: Can we talk a little bit more about that? Because I see it happen a lot, especially now that a lot of these different modalities are moving into the business world and people are [00:22:00] using them to identify clients and they're using them to identify like how they, who they want to work with and all of this.

[00:22:05] And I, and I love, I love that we're getting that bigger perspective. And, like you said, ooh, sometimes they're not being used in the way that maybe they were intended to be used or maybe in the way that they could possibly be used. What are some of the ways, maybe if you have examples or things you've seen out there, I know you said, Oh, I'm not going to work with this person because our, our numbers don't match or whatever, right?

[00:22:32] What are some of the other ways you're seeing it kind of pop up so that people can kind of start to see it also happening in real time and in real life?

[00:22:39] Sharon Marie Scott: In romantic relationships. You know, I'm a, I, you know that I'm a proud steward of the alternative lifestyles community, which includes multiple, having multiple relationships.

[00:22:47] And you know, there are plenty of my friends who do astrology who will tell me, you know, who not to date based on their birth dates. And so it's like, well, I know it's not business specifically related, but this is, um, [00:23:00] but I can be a little defiant about stuff like that because again, if I have transcended my blueprint, then the Aries Sagittarius.

[00:23:09] blend is irrelevant. It's really more irrelevant than not. And in any given moment, I'm not, I'm not thinking, are they expressing themselves as a Sagittarius? I'm just in a moment having a, having a connection with someone and making a choice in each moment to see them, see them exactly as they are and to meet them exactly as they are.

[00:23:28] You know, rather than say, trying to, uh, pull or push them into alignment with me or to becoming a person that I want them to become. And that's part of actually just the freedom and liberation of having multiple relationships too, is that it's not like one person that you're trying to lock in to be your puzzle fit, you know, for the rest of your life.

[00:23:44] Yeah. So I see it in that way. I see it in a way that we get to be stretched. We get to be more flexible and we get to defy the expectation of those blueprints. Because remember, those are just, those were just downloads. Maybe, maybe from hundreds of years ago. And so even those get updated. I [00:24:00] mean the gene keys are an update.

[00:24:02] You know, I forget, what is it? The 67 symbols. I suddenly forgot. Oh, the I chain. So even Xinkings is an updated version

[00:24:09] Jessica: of the I chain. No, that's a great point because I, I wouldn't want someone to just look at me like a number or a chart or a category, um, because that would be very limiting. And that would not be honoring the entirety of who I am, because each one of us are living a life.

[00:24:25] We're having lived experiences. We have a story before we come into this point, the chart, the number, it doesn't dictate our story. And so much is happening outside of that. Right. Just like labels. Just like labels. Just like labels.

[00:24:41] Sharon Marie Scott: Yeah. Queer and kinky and, you know, uh, neurodivergent, you know, these labels, again, they, they, they're helpful to start a conversation because it, it starts to eliminate, uh, what you're not.

[00:24:55] But then of course it's just a jumping off point, you know, for real connection [00:25:00] and really opening to, you know, A person, or in this case, like, as we're talking about blueprints, like opening to the self and saying this blueprint is based on something, this blueprint is based on, it might have some echoes of entanglements from past lives and past experiences.

[00:25:16] And so I have an opportunity to resolve that entanglement and in fact, transcend the limitations of that blueprint.

[00:25:25] Jessica: It's like another way of like looking at the things that we're working on and learning. When we talk about, um, like in spiritual circles, you'll hear people say soul lessons. Well, you're not going to stay at the same facet, level, whatever.

[00:25:39] It constantly evolves as you evolve. They, they change, they morph. And it doesn't mean that you're going to be learning it in the same Way or in the same whatever. I mean, 20 years ago, I would say, Oh, patience. Patience is one of my sole lessons. Now I am not perfectly patient, but I am much better than I was because I've got [00:26:00] 20 years of growth on myself.

[00:26:01] And in some ways you bothered to work

[00:26:02] Sharon Marie Scott: on it because you were

[00:26:03] Jessica: aware

[00:26:04] Sharon Marie Scott: of it.

[00:26:04] Jessica: Yeah. Right. So it alerted you. It is. It alerted.

[00:26:07] Sharon Marie Scott: This is a thing.

[00:26:08] Jessica: You

[00:26:08] Sharon Marie Scott: know, this is a thing. Have you, did I tell you that, uh, I don't know if you know that I used to be a comic book and video game writer before all of this. No, I didn't know that.

[00:26:15] I love that. Yeah. Comic book writer, video game writer, wrote film treatments and stuff like that. Loved the industry. I've written an article now too, is what if life were a video game? And I believe, I believe it is. I believe this. thing that I'm about to share with you, which is that life is a video game, that we are not only the main player character of the video game, but we are the game designer.

[00:26:35] And that the entire journey, so this goes through like the hero's journey, because as a storyteller, hero's journey was something that I used, um, as for storytelling. And, you know, I believe that we are, our, our journey here is to discover that we are, in fact, The, the main character of this game. And then through that journey, discover that we are the game designer.

[00:26:55] And then with that knowledge, you know, we, we are on this hero's journey. And with that [00:27:00] knowledge, we get to now start to unlock the gifts, play with the magic and, you know, and really live a life that feels turned on within the context of the game. I freaking love that. I love that so

[00:27:11] Jessica: much.

[00:27:12] Sharon Marie Scott: So the hero's journey, any, if you watch any piece of storytelling, the character has these ghosts, this background that they've been hurt in some way, or they regretted something.

[00:27:21] And they have to ultimately kind of like incrementally strip away that old identity and, you know, kind of conquer all their fears and insecurities in order to step into the hero and into the superpowers or something that they're going to have. And I feel like that's the life that I'm living. And I feel like that's all relevant, relevant to this blueprint conversation, because I believe that let's just say, I believe transcending the blueprint is the journey for this lifetime.

[00:27:49] Jessica: I really liked that. That dropped in for me a while back when I was designing Odyssey. One of the classes, um, it's not even a class. It's like a small group mastermind. Um, there's seven people in it. [00:28:00] And the first thing that dropped in about it was what, what if not only could we look at our story past, present, future, but also be.

[00:28:09] the storyteller and the writer. How would that change our perspective? Exactly right. Of how we move through the world. And so

[00:28:16] Sharon Marie Scott: I believe that's actually true. And I believe that to be true. And I'm, and I'm playing and experimenting in the field of it now.

[00:28:22] Jessica: It's really interesting where I've played together and see, cause I, I really do believe that as well.

[00:28:26] That's why I love, I love the video game. I'm like, yes, that's a perfect way of explaining

[00:28:32] Sharon Marie Scott: it. It's brilliant. Um, yeah, super fun. Yours, obviously yours is the same. And that's another indicator of. The universality, you know, of what our collective experiences is driving, is driving us toward that you and I both have the same idea, you know, in different language.

[00:28:48] Jessica: I think it's basing, like, we're just very curious people. We are like, huh, I wonder, I wonder if, what if, we're always asking questions. And we're willing

[00:28:56] Sharon Marie Scott: to say, Really the what if what you just said, like, [00:29:00] you know, what if I just believed that that download that thought that I, that I snatched that thought from somewhere and that that thought is actually true.

[00:29:09] Well, how would my day be different if I believe that thought to be true and your day will completely magically transform.

[00:29:16] Jessica: It's like a whole different. It's like, Oh, I'm going to step out of these shoes and step into these. It's a totally different day. Totally a different day. There is something to the idea that if you get up and on the wrong side of the bed to go back to bed and try it again, there is something to that.

[00:29:30] Sharon Marie Scott: Yeah. And I just had a flash of, you know, just thinking about going from, let's say unconsciousness to consciousness is a transcending of a blueprint. If you really think about it. Yes. Yes. That awareness isn't, is a transcending of the limited, the limited unconscious lens that you're looking through.

[00:29:47] Jessica: I love that.

[00:29:48] Any kind of tips or techniques that you use as you move through the world to help you sort of create this awareness? Like we talk about it, but like, how do you make it happen in real life?

[00:29:58] Sharon Marie Scott: Yeah, I think of it as [00:30:00] a in the moment everyday small thing instead of like a grand sweeping gesture that we make over a longer period of time.

[00:30:08] And I think probably if I had like the one most effective and reachable thing to do is to become the observer. We talked about the 30, 000 foot view and that and it's really kind of doing that. It's of the internal experience. Yeah. Becoming the observer of your internal experience, becoming an observer of the thought that I'm enough.

[00:30:29] So there's a difference between I am not enough, I'm not enough, you are the thought, and realizing that you had a thought, pulling your camera back a level and then going, oh, there's a piece of me that I'm holding on to who had the thought, I am not enough. From this position as the observer is everything, all of your empowerment is from this place.

[00:30:50] As soon as you become the observer of the thought and go into the body, where's the body holding on to it? You know, you can do inner child work and immediately create a quantum bubble and resolve the [00:31:00] needs of that, of the person saying that, of the echo of the person that's saying that in your, in your field.

[00:31:06] For me, becoming the observer is the jumping off point of all of the empowerment and everything you do next.

[00:31:12] Jessica: Yeah. And if you focus, it's like, so if someone says, well, what's the first step becoming the observer?

[00:31:17] Sharon Marie Scott: Yes. You had a thought, noticed you had a thought, and then even say what's coming to me is, or what I'm telling myself is.

[00:31:25] And that already puts you in the role of observer instead of being in the middle of the quicksand of the thought itself.

[00:31:30] Jessica: Ooh, I like that visual quicksand that resonates. Cause it does feel like I sometimes call it the sucking black void or a whirlpool. Yeah, the whirlpool where you're just like, wow, I'm just going down.

[00:31:44] I love

[00:31:45] Sharon Marie Scott: that. Someone described it once as if you go deep enough down in the ocean, they're like, you know, the top of the ocean is much more chaotic. And if you go down far enough, it's totally still. And you can, but you can look up and see the chaos. So that's kind of like the role of the observer too. You can watch the chaos, but [00:32:00] not be part of it.

[00:32:01] Jessica: I like that idea of going deep. And I like that a lot. Ooh, that resonates. I'm a big water person that resonates a lot. That's magic. Okay. I'm taking that little one for myself. At the end of every single episode, I always sort of ask a question that they can take, ponder, and then they can bring back to us.

[00:32:22] Like share their little gems of wisdom, either in email or on social media. So what question do you have for our listeners after today's conversation?

[00:32:31] Sharon Marie Scott: Yeah. Well, I would say if I'm going to relate it back to the blueprint, it's like. What parts of the blueprint feel really aligned and feel and you get excited and feel spacious and momentum like you almost like feel of a moving forward in your body.

[00:32:45] Like what's the part of your blueprints that feel like that? And what are the parts of the blueprint that don't feel like that? What are the ones that you can like as a social rebel say, Hmm, maybe fuck that. You know, I, I, I refuse to let that [00:33:00] be a part of my story. And which ones are you going to, you know, which ones can you stretch yourself on?

[00:33:04] I guess that's what that would be the question.

[00:33:06] Jessica: Oh, I love that. Oh yes. That's a great question. Sharon, thank you so much for being here. I really appreciate it. How can they find you?

[00:33:16] Sharon Marie Scott: Yeah, certainly just my website, www. sharonmariescott. com or emailing me, Sharon at SharonMariescott. com. You can find me on Facebook.

[00:33:25] I have a private, private group there that intersects spiritually with alternative lifestyles. And I am about to start a new Mighty Networks group all about, um, let the life turned on the signature talk and program that I'm, I'm developing as we speak. I can't, I cannot wait to hear about that.

[00:33:38] Jessica: Um, you know what?

[00:33:39] Let's continue this conversation in the Patreon. Cause there's like a dozen more questions. All right, y'all. Um, we're going to head on over to the Patreon, but thank you so much for listening today. If you've got any questions for Sharon, um, don't be shy about reaching out. Um, her work is. Absolutely spectacular.

[00:33:55] And I'm so excited that, uh, we got to hold conversation and share it with you all today. [00:34:00] Bye y'all. Thank you. Thank you for listening to reclaiming our spirit to find out how I can help you reclaim your spirit, reach out to me at www. jessicapaschke. com. Leave me a message and I just may share how you reclaimed your spirit in the next episode.